Post by theboyinadress on Sept 28, 2015 11:03:56 GMT -6
In a region already suffering with low employment, it's been decided to mothball the steel plant in Redcar, Cleveland in the North-East area of England.
The SSI Steel Plant sits on the side of the River Tees estuary and I grew up watching the many-many ships from all over the world waiting in a queue to enter the river-mouth.
With 1,700 jobs going and just before Christmas, it seems that any good-cheer in that area will be sparse.
It's just that I was listening on the radio to a lady who -along with her husband, works there and she was commenting on the pride her five year-old son had that his Daddy worked at the fiery furnace and how important it was, her next words nailed me.
My heart clenched and tears welled as she said that when she warned the little-one that things might change and his Father may not be able to work at the Steel Plant, she said her son looked out of the window towards the sea and said he was sure he could push those ships to the site.
The five year-old assured his Mommy that he could do it... he knew he could do it and his Daddy's job would be okay again. Those big metal ships with their cargo, sitting in a line and waiting... the little lad would swim out there, push them and make it all okay once more.
You know, I believe him.
Last Edit: Sept 28, 2015 11:05:01 GMT -6 by theboyinadress
Last year, I was fired from a job. My first time. My son asked what he could do to help. He was 11 at the time. By the gods, I loved that!
But that's it really, isn't it? That's the real truth behind all of this. We fret, worry and sweat over the loss of our jobs and when it happens, it seems like there's no way out.
But the young see it different. They have a trust and a confidence that no matter what 'grown-up' stuff happens, his Mom and Dad are there and everything will be okay.
There's always a way around it and the true value of life resides within a family unit. Keep that close to your heart and you'll have something that even Donald Trump cannot buy.
And for that little kid with the determined lip looking out at the waiting tankers...? Why -with his heart, he can just push those ships along and God help anyone who gets in his way.
Last Edit: Sept 28, 2015 11:29:31 GMT -6 by theboyinadress
Great story showing the determination and optimism of the young. Those are qualities that need to be nourished and encouraged. The kid has just been slapped upside the head with a dose of reality, and yet still sees a possible positive outcome.
I'm not happy at how jaded I have become over the years I have grown. but I still remember that little bit of my youth where nothing is impossible and hold it dear.
Beware the man who has one gun, he probably knows how to use it.
Post by theboyinadress on Sept 28, 2015 12:11:28 GMT -6
I'm the only son from the only son of his Father and I have one child, a son. I had plenty of sisters though!
There's a woman who is in her late-seventies now and her life has been a bit of a struggle because of her disabilities. She's my sister and was born at home with a withered-arm and was premature.
Ignoring her arm, she played alongside another sister of her age and during a dangerous game of sticking you leg out through the bars at an old-time bus terminus, my sister's leg got jammed and the double-decker bus ran over it.
The leg was so crushed that when the surgeons finished their work on the limb, my sister had one leg that was shorter than the other and it could only point downwards. Then she went deaf.
Now I know that some of you at this time, may feel an embarrassment from a surge of a giggle, that's fine... really, that's okay. Some might frown and wonder why I seem so cruel, but you see, I've seen her in action!
I've never felt sorry for her and we fought like cat-and-dog. She saw things in an annoying flat-plain way and I'll kill anyone who seeks her harm
A friend of mine visited my parents house once in the seventies and was waiting for me to return outside to him whilst my sister was attempting to hang laundry on a line. I obtained the account later from my sister, but the friend never spoke of it even after I asked twice.
The young man -who was quite a fighter in his time, must have snorted a laugh at my sister using her teeth and good arm.
He must have seen her eyes change or something because he suddenly set off at a pace and I was confused as I returned and saw my sister take-off after him.
A useless arm, deaf and limping along after a fit younger person in a full sprint and a ten-yard lead on her. It took her three minutes.
The arm isn't really useless and I can testify to that. It's a bit like automatic claw, it grabs and doesn't let go. But it's the huge incoming OTHER arm that tends to do the damage.
They say blind people discover that their other senses seem to ramp-up and enhance to support the failing of the eyes. My sister's good arm... enter stage-left.
There are times during some of our fights in my youth that I was sure my sister was the b*stard-daughter of a bare-knuckle prizefighter. Jeez, it hurt.
Oh, and she bites. Big strong teeth -even now and she's pushing eighty years of age. I've been bitten on the upper-jaw (upper-jaw for goodness sake!)... and once I thought I'd lost a finger.
So with the bungling, limping out-of-shape woman chasing after him, my friend should have been out of sight in minutes. Remember the laughing...? Yeah, that's what got him in the end.
The hook went in, the hammer-arm came a-swinging and I'm sure my sister would have mentally licked her lips and wondered whether it's okay to bite outside of the family!
I know he cried at one point and I never asked him about that.
So, the power of belief comes in many forms and in the case of my sister, it seems that belief tends to wield a large, hefty arm.
Last Edit: Sept 28, 2015 12:26:50 GMT -6 by theboyinadress
My son is 12 now. Born blind in one eye and poor vision in the other. We've never told him he can't see. We've never told him he can't play sports. He even climbed the Ramstein AFB rock climbing wall in record time (50 ft) on his first go. He thought that everyone saw the same as him.
He's never received special treatment, never gone to "special education" never applied for special services.
Post by omegalogos on Sept 28, 2015 12:38:45 GMT -6
Explanation: ...
Mighty but futile dreams the boy dreamed to keep his fathers dreams also alive.. an oath he made his mother ... the steel ships he would swim out and push them to shore ... "I will make it alright mummy!" he defiantly decreed ... all the while the vultures in Westminster circled his future carcass pecking and picking at his bare bones for any speck of blood tax money as the furnace of his soul ran cold and bitter.
My son is 12 now. Born blind in one eye and poor vision in the other. We've never told him he can't see. We've never told him he can't play sports. He even climbed the Ramstein AFB rock climbing wall in record time (50 ft) on his first go. He thought that everyone saw the same as him.
He's never received special treatment, never gone to "special education" never applied for special services.
He's just a typical boy.
It's that power we need to harness and this will truly make us a better race across the universe.
Post by theboyinadress on Sept 28, 2015 13:26:11 GMT -6
omegalogos, That's powerful stuff you have there Sir.
But for me, I saw an image in my head that -even now, makes me breath in deeply.
It was a cold sea, but if you've got a job to do, you have to learn to ignore it, his Father taught him that.
The small boy struggled with the choppy waves and spitting the salty water away, he accepted that any chore that helped his Pa to get the steel out tonight was never going to be easy. Anyway, the toons he enjoyed on nickelodeon will be finished now.
He pushed on towards the hulking ships and wondered what his Mother had ready for his tea.
It was getting dark and the young lad could see the huge furnace near the edge of the estuary glowing out into the early evening sky.
The shore looked far away and the small twinkling lights of home seemed to pull at his heart strings and in any other situation, the five year-old would have sobbed his way back to Mother's open arms. But not tonight, tonight the kid had a job to do.
You can move 'em, you do know that, don't you? The little body strained and kinked among the throat-burning waves and the stevedore peering over the rail must have been shocked out of his socks at the sight of the child trying to push a multi-tonned craft of riveted metal. That's exactly how he put it to his Captain moments later.
'We're gonna be late...' the boy informed a passing inquisitive seagull and grunted more exertion. '...Pa's gonna be wonderin' if I've failed him'
Then the tanker began to move. The key is getting them to start, that's it -he mused as he blinked the salty water from his long lashes and felt the under-currents roil beneath him.
The noise from the diesel engines was so thunderous that the chatter from the radio in the wheelhouse could not be heard and the boy ignored the gawking spectators on the tanker above him.
'Heh kid...' one of the men shouted as he began his tiring swim towards the next ship. '...Who are you?' the seaman called.
The boy counted seven more ships among the gloom, just as his Mother had taught him, but from this angle in the water made it look like they were all beginning to move.
With a frown of impatience, he peered up at the burly silhouettes on the well-lit craft and answered the man.
'I'm just a fella on night-shift...' he said with his small voice '...and I'm running late'
Last Edit: Sept 28, 2015 13:30:42 GMT -6 by theboyinadress